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My sisters BFS roommates - 9/26/2008 2:22:35 PM
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CandaceClaywell
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Okay so To make a long story short
My sisters bf has 3 guy roommates.I met them over a month ago. and REALLY started liking this guy Luis. Me and luis Became close. we talked all the time and hung out alot. he acted like he liked me so much and i thought we were going to start dating. THEN out of know where a nother roommate angel started talking to me. he would email me and call me alot. then i found out he liked me. and everything went down hill from then. angel said that luis cant talk to me anymore because he is to jealous. so of course luis cared about his best friend and stoped talking to me. i was so hurt. very upset and i fought to try to keep luis. but it failed. angel got what he wanted. i stop talking to luis. and 2 days later luis got a new girl. this new girl clings on to luis for dear life she is always over. luis dosnt like her. but is trying to be a nice guy. they arent really dating. but the hang out alot. i am so hurt. i go over and see here there all the time. and i cant get over it i cant get over luis. what he had was special
and i know he likes me
but his stupid friend ruined us
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RE: My sisters BFS roommates - 9/26/2008 3:09:19 PM
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John_O
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THEN out of know where a nother roommate angel started talking to me. he would email me and call me alot. then i found out he liked me. and everything went down hill from then. angel said that luis cant talk to me anymore because he is to jealous.
When Angel would call did you talk to him? Did you return Angels emails? Did you let Luis know you were interested in him?
I'd guess the answers are Yes, Yes and No. Which left Luis feeling like you liked Angel better and he wasn't going to compete.
The lesson learned? If you like one guy, don't hang out with the others.
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RE: My sisters BFS roommates - 9/28/2008 12:49:56 AM
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OneJohn410
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Thanks for making this short, in case I forget to say so later on.
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ORIGINAL: CandaceClaywell
Okay so To make a long story short
My sisters bf has 3 guy roommates.I met them over a month ago. and REALLY started liking this guy Luis. Me and luis Became close. we talked all the time and hung out alot. he acted like he liked me so much and i thought we were going to start dating. THEN out of know where a nother roommate angel started talking to me. he would email me and call me alot. then i found out he liked me. and everything went down hill from then. angel said that luis cant talk to me anymore because he is to jealous. so of course luis cared about his best friend and stoped talking to me. i was so hurt. very upset and i fought to try to keep luis. but it failed. angel got what he wanted. i stop talking to luis. and 2 days later luis got a new girl. this new girl clings on to luis for dear life she is always over. luis dosnt like her. but is trying to be a nice guy. they arent really dating. but the hang out alot. i am so hurt. i go over and see here there all the time. and i cant get over it i cant get over luis. what he had was special
and i know he likes me
but his stupid friend ruined us
=(
Angel may have won, but he sure didn't make the end of your post, I see. Good for you. What a jealous jerk.
What is this? Are you supposed to be careful how happy you make guys to know you, lest their best friend lord of the manor threaten to throw them out for being so joyful? I bet John_O and I could set things back aright, so long as there are no guns. That's my rule, no guns, and no lethal weapons. We'll bring some of our 'friends' along too, and they can go in to visit first. Just let us know which one is your sister's boyfriend so he doesnt' get heavily witnessed to first, capice?
Another moral to the story is to have a good talk with your sister first about what it is you may encounter. I have a suspicion she was thinking you and Luis might quickly become friends. She should have been aware of this Angel of Jealousy guy and the trouble he could be.
I hope all this hasn't messed up her dating whoever Angel lets date her.
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For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through endurance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope. -Romans 15:4 (NIV)
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RE: My sisters BFS roommates - 9/28/2008 5:51:40 AM
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buckifn
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If a guy likes you and wants to be with you he isn't going to find another girl in 2 days.
Plus he isn't going to hangout with her all the time just to be nice. Stop kidding yourself and move on to find somebody who truly wants to be with you.
Those two guys sound like they did you a favor by moving on.
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RE: My sisters BFS roommates - 10/2/2008 1:57:01 PM
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Auben
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You kind of walked into this one.
You choose to allow Angel to have his way. You could choose to dump him as a friend and keep Luis.
You have to be plain with both of them. Either Angel is your friend with no control over who you hang with OR Angel is not your friend. Period. Obviously he thinks you're on your way to being his girlfriend. If you don't feel similarly put your foot down now.
By allowing Angel to move in you are telling Luis that you're interested in Angel.
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If I understand this correctly, you allowed a jealous friend to dictate who you will date? That's a self made problem by not being clear on your actions. If you have 2 guys bidding for your hand in a relationship, guys can't read minds. You have to let it be known that you are interested and what are your intentions... friend, girlfriend, or merely an acquaintance.
